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How does one succeed in life?

13.06.2025 12:07

How does one succeed in life?

The truth is: Future YOU is simply YOU, but older and more tired.

Scrolls too much TikTok/YouTube Shorts.

Has a beautiful wife, cars, etc.

Will my parents go to hell if I don't wear hijab, they tried to convince me and they provided it to me but I don't want to wear it?

Avoids sugar and is very fit.

“YOU 2.0” is like your future kid. It’s your duty to make decisions for him. It is wiser to marry a nice mom for your kid, not just a beautiful wife for yourself.

How can I make it impossible to fall into a specific bad habit (you want to quit)?

Why aren't U.S. prisons more like Marine Corps boot camp, were every second of the day there are mandatory activities so that at night everyone is so tired they go to sleep until wakeup at 5:30 am? Would this make prisons safer for all?

Final example: Maybe you want to be a better version of yourself in 2025.

The money you’ve invested, the tailored plan, and the accountability of the coach make it almost impossible not to succeed.

That's it for today.

How can we worship Shri Krishna at home? Is it enough to install an idol, or are there other rituals that are mandatory?

Making more friends is a goal.

In 5 years, YOU will still be the one making decisions. And if you keep your current habits, "YOU 2.0" will have big problems.

Procrastinates a lot.

People's mental health often improves after weight-loss surgery. A study pinpoints the real reason why. - Live Science

What I need from you?

Saving $10,000 is a goal.

First, understand that, effective "change" should be 80% systems and only 20% willpower—not the other way around. Do not joke with that.

Shedeur Sanders goes the extra mile to win the Cleveland Browns starting quarterback job and the whole world is there to appreciate it - MARCA

Hangs out with loser friends.

Porn blockers might help, but they won’t be as effective. And you know nudity isn’t just on Pornhub—it’s everywhere. Don’t joke with fire.

Having a process that automatically transfers money to your savings account each month is a system.

What is the most heartbreaking thing your child has told you?

If you don’t change now, expect tomorrow to be almost exactly the same—or worse.

I never raise problems without solutions. So, what to do?

Opens a business and makes WiFi money.

How is the legalization of same-sex marriage impacting societal norms in the USA?

Attending 1 specific event every week is a system. Friends will naturally come to you.

Cutting off WiFi at home for a month or giving your phone to a distant friend for a month (in exchange for a Nokia or simply nothing) is a system.

Losers and winners have the same goals. The difference is their systems.

Have you ever been a victim of gaslighting? What happened?

Big dreamer but only in his mind.

Living to your full potential is a goal.

Can’t control his impulses (women, porn, masturbation, smoking, Netflix, anger, etc.).

What does the Turkish word çıplak mean?

An average man, let's call him Sam’i (that’s my name):

How can I make the good habit (you want to start) inevitable?

PICK 1 important thing you want to quit or bring into your life in 2025. Think hard about a system that will make it impossible or inevitable.

How are max different from medical and minimum security prisons?

Keep in mind that, there is always a system for any problem. You just need to be willing to think hard enough and BE WILLING TO MAKE SACRIFICES.

Paying a coach with a detailed plan is a system.

Does not procrastinate.

What smell will you never forget?

Hates going to the gym, eating healthy, or even doing laundry.

Example 1: Let’s say you make a monthly income, and you want to save $10,000.

Do not set goals—set systems.

Why don't younger men like older women?

Buying, a book like Live Intentionally or any other practical self-improvement guide is a system.

Similarly, "YOU 2.0" trusts you to make decisions for him.

Like Sam’i, 99% of men treat their future selves like strangers—completely different from who they are right now.

What is unattractive about a nice guy? Why do some women don’t choose nice guys?

Ask yourself:

However, he firmly believes that one day, he will (like by a miracle) be that new, dope version of himself, Sam’i 2.0:

Losing 20kg is a goal.

Self-disciplined (controls his d*ck, no Netflix, no smoking, etc.).

Example 2: Maybe you want to lose weight.

Most people think their 2.0 version will magically manifest and find it easier to do hard things.

Example 3: Maybe you want to make more friends.

Quitting porn for 30 days is a goal.

Example 4: Maybe you want to quit porn for 30 days.